Relationships are delicate, whether it is a romantic or familial
relationship or simply a friendship. Individuals, bodies or
organizations often introduce what they consider groundbreaking advice
on relationships in attempt to make it better.
Unfortunately, people take these advice without putting much
consideration into it and later find themselves in a fix when such
advice fail. So what's the right way?
Jumia Travel shares misleading relationship advices in circulation and alternatives that can be of help instead. It is important to be aware of the fact that no one knows it all, so give thought to every advice that you are given and determine for yourself if it is sensible enough to follow.
RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD BRING JOY AND NOT SADNESSSure, there are aspects of a relationship that are pure bliss, but to say that a relationship should continually bring joy relates the experience of being in a relationship to a fairytale. Relationships should not bring you sadness, but the truth is sometimes they do. If you are not prepared for this truth, you will go into a relationship, especially a romantic relationship, and find yourself taken by surprise. You then conclude that because of a number of sad moments in your relationship, it has failed to give you joy and thus promptly end the relationship.
In relationships of any kind, especially those that you go into and not born into, patience is key.
Jumia Travel shares misleading relationship advices in circulation and alternatives that can be of help instead. It is important to be aware of the fact that no one knows it all, so give thought to every advice that you are given and determine for yourself if it is sensible enough to follow.
RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD BRING JOY AND NOT SADNESSSure, there are aspects of a relationship that are pure bliss, but to say that a relationship should continually bring joy relates the experience of being in a relationship to a fairytale. Relationships should not bring you sadness, but the truth is sometimes they do. If you are not prepared for this truth, you will go into a relationship, especially a romantic relationship, and find yourself taken by surprise. You then conclude that because of a number of sad moments in your relationship, it has failed to give you joy and thus promptly end the relationship.
In relationships of any kind, especially those that you go into and not born into, patience is key.
For relationships you are born into, blood relationships for example,
even if things get ugly you can’t just opt out. Even if it does bring
you more sadness than pain, you unfortunately cannot opt out of it so
easily because blood ties are strong and nearly unbreakable. You must
learn to make peace with such relationships and find a way to deal with
it. You’ll eventually pull through.
TELL EACH OTHER EVERYTHING
This is a tricky one. But please don’t tell you partner or friend or sibling or parent in a relationship everything, especially if they do not ask. Instead of blurting out every sordid detail to them, pay them the greatest respect by giving them a choice – ask them if they want to know.
If you must be honest, don’t rob the person you are being honest to of their right to choose to know what you want to share. Pay them this respect and they will appreciate you for it, even if they end up not liking what you have to say. Remember; let it be their choice.
HE/SHE SHOULD LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU AREFor a moment, think about someone or something you really love. Ask yourself if you have at any point tried to either make improvements to or make better that person or thing. Why do you then want someone to settle for you, without trying in some way to help you get better?
You try to improve what you love. You buy expensive clothes for your mother or father who cannot afford to buy expensive clothes, because you want them to look good, you want them to look better. You send your children to better schools than yourself, because you want them to have better opportunities than you did. You willingly share your salary with your siblings, so they can have enough money to afford some of the things you couldn’t afford when you were in the same position as they are, because you want to see them better. Trying to help the one you love improve and get better is a sign of love and acceptance. It is a sign that you are their only option, so they want to help you be the best of yourself.
See this as an expression of love, listen to them and try to make the improvements they suggest as much as you can. The crux of the matter is do not reject your partner for trying to make you better, understand it as an expression of love and react to it with this knowledge.
MANAGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES YOURSELF OR WITH YOUR PARTNERNo man is an island and even in relationships, you both cannot exist apart from everyone else.
TELL EACH OTHER EVERYTHING
This is a tricky one. But please don’t tell you partner or friend or sibling or parent in a relationship everything, especially if they do not ask. Instead of blurting out every sordid detail to them, pay them the greatest respect by giving them a choice – ask them if they want to know.
If you must be honest, don’t rob the person you are being honest to of their right to choose to know what you want to share. Pay them this respect and they will appreciate you for it, even if they end up not liking what you have to say. Remember; let it be their choice.
HE/SHE SHOULD LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU AREFor a moment, think about someone or something you really love. Ask yourself if you have at any point tried to either make improvements to or make better that person or thing. Why do you then want someone to settle for you, without trying in some way to help you get better?
You try to improve what you love. You buy expensive clothes for your mother or father who cannot afford to buy expensive clothes, because you want them to look good, you want them to look better. You send your children to better schools than yourself, because you want them to have better opportunities than you did. You willingly share your salary with your siblings, so they can have enough money to afford some of the things you couldn’t afford when you were in the same position as they are, because you want to see them better. Trying to help the one you love improve and get better is a sign of love and acceptance. It is a sign that you are their only option, so they want to help you be the best of yourself.
See this as an expression of love, listen to them and try to make the improvements they suggest as much as you can. The crux of the matter is do not reject your partner for trying to make you better, understand it as an expression of love and react to it with this knowledge.
MANAGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES YOURSELF OR WITH YOUR PARTNERNo man is an island and even in relationships, you both cannot exist apart from everyone else.
Please you cannot solve every issue in your relationship on your own or
with your partner. Accept this truth and get help – the right help.
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